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		<title>By: Ayanda</title>
		<link>http://www.markjryan.com/blog/2009/12/seasons_change/comment-page-1/#comment-199</link>
		<dc:creator>Ayanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Dec 2009 16:39:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Okay so we need to be cautious about dictating &quot;how&quot; one &quot;finds enlightenment&quot; - the how will be provided by the Universe/All There Is etc. Our job is to seek, and to seek sincerely - and the only way we can, as individuals, do that, is in whatever way resonates with our personal truth at any given moment. We will probably never be able to look within and find not a trace of &quot;humanity&quot; because humanity is the realm in which we are operating in the Now. But we can become aware of those aspects of humanity, and decide whether they serve our desire for and towards enlightenment - not all aspects of humanity are &quot;bad&quot;! And be brutally honest, and discerning (I do prefer not to use the word judgement simply because of the connotations so often attached to it)and make conscious choices based on how seriously we seek inner peace.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay so we need to be cautious about dictating &#8220;how&#8221; one &#8220;finds enlightenment&#8221; &#8211; the how will be provided by the Universe/All There Is etc. Our job is to seek, and to seek sincerely &#8211; and the only way we can, as individuals, do that, is in whatever way resonates with our personal truth at any given moment. We will probably never be able to look within and find not a trace of &#8220;humanity&#8221; because humanity is the realm in which we are operating in the Now. But we can become aware of those aspects of humanity, and decide whether they serve our desire for and towards enlightenment &#8211; not all aspects of humanity are &#8220;bad&#8221;! And be brutally honest, and discerning (I do prefer not to use the word judgement simply because of the connotations so often attached to it)and make conscious choices based on how seriously we seek inner peace.</p>
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		<title>By: Dorothy</title>
		<link>http://www.markjryan.com/blog/2009/12/seasons_change/comment-page-1/#comment-179</link>
		<dc:creator>Dorothy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 07:39:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I loved RevRon comment 31.  Very well put</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I loved RevRon comment 31.  Very well put</p>
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		<title>By: Mark J Ryan</title>
		<link>http://www.markjryan.com/blog/2009/12/seasons_change/comment-page-1/#comment-177</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark J Ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 19:54:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If it is universal, and if it is a law, then it has to work the same for each and everyone. I don&#039;t think anything in this situation is a universal law. Please check out my post from this morning here: http://www.markjryan.com/blog/2009/12/limits_on_law_of_attraction/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If it is universal, and if it is a law, then it has to work the same for each and everyone. I don&#8217;t think anything in this situation is a universal law. Please check out my post from this morning here: <a href="http://www.markjryan.com/blog/2009/12/limits_on_law_of_attraction/" rel="nofollow">http://www.markjryan.com/blog/2009/12/limits_on_law_of_attraction/</a></p>
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		<title>By: Bill</title>
		<link>http://www.markjryan.com/blog/2009/12/seasons_change/comment-page-1/#comment-176</link>
		<dc:creator>Bill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 19:36:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mark - I just keep coming back to this question. &quot;Don&#039;t the universal laws, principles work the same for each and everyone regardless?

Bill</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mark &#8211; I just keep coming back to this question. &#8220;Don&#8217;t the universal laws, principles work the same for each and everyone regardless?</p>
<p>Bill</p>
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		<title>By: RevRon</title>
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		<dc:creator>RevRon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 15:59:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ayanda said, &quot;Anyone who dishonours another in whatever way, is acting â€“ I call them pseudo-spiritualists.&quot;

My point exactly. If one&#039;s actions are not so pure that his or her ethics are virtually above question (much less, reproach), they are still bound to their carnal nature (ego). To be awakened is to perceive the ego, but not be driven by it. Nothing wrong with loving the &quot;actors,&quot; so long as you don&#039;t confuse the real person with the part they&#039;re playing.

I know of one self-proclaimed &quot;teacher&quot; who promises his followers the secret to awakening and enlightenment (always for a price, even when promised for free), yet rages whenever his own desires are denied or when anything he says is challenged. He will even go so far as to silence challenges whenever possible. He professes to love his challengers, but I have seen how he will strike out at even those who challenge from a place of love. To claim that such a person is &quot;awakened&quot; or &quot;enlightened&quot; is a futile attempt to lower the bar of spiritual evolvement. Perhaps some feel this is necessary, believing that true awakening is beyond their grasp, and desperately trying to make it more attainable by diminishing its demands (and thus its promise).

Too many people seem to think that &quot;awakening&quot; is to spirituality as an orgasm is to casual sex. In truth, it isn&#039;t a &quot;goal&quot; that must be rushed toward, but rather the natural occurrence, experienced by those who have learned to love the journey, and to grasp and savor each moment, unconcerned about and virtually oblivious to the journey&#039;s end.

From this perspective, beware anyone who tries to sell a map of &quot;shortcuts&quot; to that ultimate destination. That they are selling rather than giving is proof that their motivation is to satisfy their own unawakened desires. And following their &quot;maps,&quot; could well distract seekers from encountering the experiences they need as they make their journey.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ayanda said, &#8220;Anyone who dishonours another in whatever way, is acting â€“ I call them pseudo-spiritualists.&#8221;</p>
<p>My point exactly. If one&#8217;s actions are not so pure that his or her ethics are virtually above question (much less, reproach), they are still bound to their carnal nature (ego). To be awakened is to perceive the ego, but not be driven by it. Nothing wrong with loving the &#8220;actors,&#8221; so long as you don&#8217;t confuse the real person with the part they&#8217;re playing.</p>
<p>I know of one self-proclaimed &#8220;teacher&#8221; who promises his followers the secret to awakening and enlightenment (always for a price, even when promised for free), yet rages whenever his own desires are denied or when anything he says is challenged. He will even go so far as to silence challenges whenever possible. He professes to love his challengers, but I have seen how he will strike out at even those who challenge from a place of love. To claim that such a person is &#8220;awakened&#8221; or &#8220;enlightened&#8221; is a futile attempt to lower the bar of spiritual evolvement. Perhaps some feel this is necessary, believing that true awakening is beyond their grasp, and desperately trying to make it more attainable by diminishing its demands (and thus its promise).</p>
<p>Too many people seem to think that &#8220;awakening&#8221; is to spirituality as an orgasm is to casual sex. In truth, it isn&#8217;t a &#8220;goal&#8221; that must be rushed toward, but rather the natural occurrence, experienced by those who have learned to love the journey, and to grasp and savor each moment, unconcerned about and virtually oblivious to the journey&#8217;s end.</p>
<p>From this perspective, beware anyone who tries to sell a map of &#8220;shortcuts&#8221; to that ultimate destination. That they are selling rather than giving is proof that their motivation is to satisfy their own unawakened desires. And following their &#8220;maps,&#8221; could well distract seekers from encountering the experiences they need as they make their journey.</p>
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		<title>By: Fraser Douglas</title>
		<link>http://www.markjryan.com/blog/2009/12/seasons_change/comment-page-1/#comment-172</link>
		<dc:creator>Fraser Douglas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 12:17:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Mark thanks for the info, may I ask in your opinion how this fit&#039;s with self identity Ho&#039;oponopono?
I think this could be a by product of modern media and the availability of â€œawakening materialâ€ anyone can get it and wake up but most media also fast tracks the process. Most media focuses on the awakening part and brushes over the core values and ethics. 
I am a self awareness coach and I take responsibility that if the client has not got the correct foundation of peace and really coming from a place of love then I donâ€™t start the coaching program. I have meet people that where enlightened and at the same time just plane nasty. When I met them I took the lesson of why I attracted these people in and installed personal boundaries for selecting my clients. My clients must fall into set criteria before the coaching starts. The training starts with core values, once I am assured they have the correct vale system in place then and only then do they get the tools for awakening.
 If they havenâ€™t got or are refusing to live by good values then I give them their money back and say good bye. This isnâ€™t easy but as yet it is the only system I have to ensure that there are more people out there with peace and love in their hearts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Mark thanks for the info, may I ask in your opinion how this fit&#8217;s with self identity Ho&#8217;oponopono?<br />
I think this could be a by product of modern media and the availability of â€œawakening materialâ€ anyone can get it and wake up but most media also fast tracks the process. Most media focuses on the awakening part and brushes over the core values and ethics.<br />
I am a self awareness coach and I take responsibility that if the client has not got the correct foundation of peace and really coming from a place of love then I donâ€™t start the coaching program. I have meet people that where enlightened and at the same time just plane nasty. When I met them I took the lesson of why I attracted these people in and installed personal boundaries for selecting my clients. My clients must fall into set criteria before the coaching starts. The training starts with core values, once I am assured they have the correct vale system in place then and only then do they get the tools for awakening.<br />
 If they havenâ€™t got or are refusing to live by good values then I give them their money back and say good bye. This isnâ€™t easy but as yet it is the only system I have to ensure that there are more people out there with peace and love in their hearts.</p>
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		<title>By: Dorothy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dorothy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 03:13:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Really interesting discussion taking place.  I did want to respond to a point that many people seemed to make in their responses; something along the lines of 

&quot;Judgement of any kind is not enlightened thinking&quot;

I disagree.  I beleve judgement can be an ally in emotional and spiritual growth.  I think there is a big difference between being judgemental and having judgement or discernment.  Judgement with wisdom and compassion or having discernment about who we choose to associate with or align ourselves with is necessary to mental, emotional health. Just because you are trying to evolve as a spiritual being I don&#039;t think that means you should check your brain at the door.  I&#039;ve often heard people say &quot;we are spiritual beings having a human experience&quot;.  True - but let&#039;s value our human experiences as much as our spiritual ones.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Really interesting discussion taking place.  I did want to respond to a point that many people seemed to make in their responses; something along the lines of </p>
<p>&#8220;Judgement of any kind is not enlightened thinking&#8221;</p>
<p>I disagree.  I beleve judgement can be an ally in emotional and spiritual growth.  I think there is a big difference between being judgemental and having judgement or discernment.  Judgement with wisdom and compassion or having discernment about who we choose to associate with or align ourselves with is necessary to mental, emotional health. Just because you are trying to evolve as a spiritual being I don&#8217;t think that means you should check your brain at the door.  I&#8217;ve often heard people say &#8220;we are spiritual beings having a human experience&#8221;.  True &#8211; but let&#8217;s value our human experiences as much as our spiritual ones.</p>
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		<title>By: Mark J Ryan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark J Ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Dec 2009 17:36:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Phil - both of your comments are great and expand the conversation in exactly the way I love to see. Thank you so much for sharing. Fantastic insights.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Phil &#8211; both of your comments are great and expand the conversation in exactly the way I love to see. Thank you so much for sharing. Fantastic insights.</p>
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		<title>By: phil</title>
		<link>http://www.markjryan.com/blog/2009/12/seasons_change/comment-page-1/#comment-169</link>
		<dc:creator>phil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Dec 2009 16:16:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One additional thought about the humanness of &quot;enlightened&quot; teachers.  I have heard it said by one of my teachers that enlightenment is not a one-time event after which you are forever at one with the universe.  Enlightenment happens in short moments that can lengthen and grow with practice, but no matter how enlightened one becomes, &quot;as long as you exist in a body, you continue to operate from a human framework with human personality, experience, culture etc.&quot;.  From this perspective we can learn about &quot;enlightenment&quot; from those who have experienced it with out assuming perfection.  I think this provides more hope for the rest of on our journey.  As another teacher once said to me, &quot;Phil, let go of striving for enlightenment and try striving for &quot;lightenment&quot;. Let enlightenment happen on its own.  What would your life be like if each day you were a little lighter than yesterday?&quot;

Thanks again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One additional thought about the humanness of &#8220;enlightened&#8221; teachers.  I have heard it said by one of my teachers that enlightenment is not a one-time event after which you are forever at one with the universe.  Enlightenment happens in short moments that can lengthen and grow with practice, but no matter how enlightened one becomes, &#8220;as long as you exist in a body, you continue to operate from a human framework with human personality, experience, culture etc.&#8221;.  From this perspective we can learn about &#8220;enlightenment&#8221; from those who have experienced it with out assuming perfection.  I think this provides more hope for the rest of on our journey.  As another teacher once said to me, &#8220;Phil, let go of striving for enlightenment and try striving for &#8220;lightenment&#8221;. Let enlightenment happen on its own.  What would your life be like if each day you were a little lighter than yesterday?&#8221;</p>
<p>Thanks again.</p>
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		<title>By: phil</title>
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		<dc:creator>phil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Dec 2009 16:04:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for this fascinating and thought provoking post and comments. I must admit upfront that I have not read all the comments due to my time constraints so what I have to say may have been said already.

It seems to me that the connection between enlightenment and morality is not direct because the simply operate on different levels of existence.  I have no personal experience with an enlightened person so this is purely theoretical, but to my thinking enlightenment relates to connection and insight into the larger patterns/purpose of the universe/divine/God or whatever name you choose.  I think that this conversation is confusing the ideas of &quot;immoral&quot; and &quot;amoral&quot;.

One cannot apply the human/cultural/societal definitions of morality to the universal/divine.   If we do this then it is immediately apparent (from our limited perspective) that God is immoral. We need only look at the fact that bad/immoral things happen in a world created by this universal divine power.  

If OSHO or Tammy Faye or the Buddha is actually enlightened then their choice of behaviors may be driven by a higher purpose than we are capable of understanding.  Hitler&#039;s actions can be considered immoral by almost any standard and yet it is plausible that from a divine perspective his existence served a larger and ultimately good function.  Even as a limited human I can see that the very conversation we are engaged in here has been made possible by the evolution in consciousness lead (in part at least) by our collective experience of the immorality around us.

Several contributors have explained to the rest of us what it means to be &quot;enlightened&quot; which strikes me a very human and somewhat misguided.  I strongly suspect that true enlightenment goes well beyond any explanations we have heard or could even understand.  On a simple personal level, I was incapable of truly understanding what it meant to be a &quot;parent&quot; until I had children of my own despite all the reading, talking, thinking and meditating about it I did before hand.

Despite all the esoteric discussion of enlightenment, I return to one of Mark&#039;s key points (as I understand it).  Despite knowing or not knowing who is or isn&#039;t enlightened, we as individuals are ultimately responsible for our own choices, actions and the experience of our lives and must, therefore, endeavor to make conscious and conscientious choices.  I believe we are each capable of reaching enlightenment on our own both because of and despite everyone else in our lives.

Thank you again for this discussion and for reading this far.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this fascinating and thought provoking post and comments. I must admit upfront that I have not read all the comments due to my time constraints so what I have to say may have been said already.</p>
<p>It seems to me that the connection between enlightenment and morality is not direct because the simply operate on different levels of existence.  I have no personal experience with an enlightened person so this is purely theoretical, but to my thinking enlightenment relates to connection and insight into the larger patterns/purpose of the universe/divine/God or whatever name you choose.  I think that this conversation is confusing the ideas of &#8220;immoral&#8221; and &#8220;amoral&#8221;.</p>
<p>One cannot apply the human/cultural/societal definitions of morality to the universal/divine.   If we do this then it is immediately apparent (from our limited perspective) that God is immoral. We need only look at the fact that bad/immoral things happen in a world created by this universal divine power.  </p>
<p>If OSHO or Tammy Faye or the Buddha is actually enlightened then their choice of behaviors may be driven by a higher purpose than we are capable of understanding.  Hitler&#8217;s actions can be considered immoral by almost any standard and yet it is plausible that from a divine perspective his existence served a larger and ultimately good function.  Even as a limited human I can see that the very conversation we are engaged in here has been made possible by the evolution in consciousness lead (in part at least) by our collective experience of the immorality around us.</p>
<p>Several contributors have explained to the rest of us what it means to be &#8220;enlightened&#8221; which strikes me a very human and somewhat misguided.  I strongly suspect that true enlightenment goes well beyond any explanations we have heard or could even understand.  On a simple personal level, I was incapable of truly understanding what it meant to be a &#8220;parent&#8221; until I had children of my own despite all the reading, talking, thinking and meditating about it I did before hand.</p>
<p>Despite all the esoteric discussion of enlightenment, I return to one of Mark&#8217;s key points (as I understand it).  Despite knowing or not knowing who is or isn&#8217;t enlightened, we as individuals are ultimately responsible for our own choices, actions and the experience of our lives and must, therefore, endeavor to make conscious and conscientious choices.  I believe we are each capable of reaching enlightenment on our own both because of and despite everyone else in our lives.</p>
<p>Thank you again for this discussion and for reading this far.</p>
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